
Not everyone needs to be a leader.
Forget what college ad campaigns have told you, society has convinced you of, and your parents hoped you would be. We’re not all cut out to be leaders (at least not all the time), and that’s a good thing.
Disturbing, I know.
It’s been drilled into our heads that true success is largely the result of leadership capability. The thing is, if every person were to be a leader, we would go nowhere as a society. Personal agendas would govern each individual’s actions and teamwork would be impossible. And with the absence of teamwork, we lose the capability to achieve truly important goals. The saying goes “Rome wasn’t built in a day.” I’d add that Rome also wasn’t built exclusively by Caesars with big egos doing their own thing.
I can guarantee that there were a lot of exceptionally smart, talented, and successful future Romans who knew how and whom to follow. Those people may have been leaders in their own right, given particular situations. That’s what makes good teamwork so dynamic—if leaders are willing to follow team members who are more qualified to lead particular tasks, the probability of overall success for the greater objective is bound to be higher. Being a good leader is often about being able to be a good follower. It’s about having the flexibility—and the reason—to step aside and let someone else take the reigns when it benefits the team.
Pretty simple, right?
Yet in business, we inevitably stumble when it comes to how we approach leadership. How many people would rate their “leadership skills” as “high” if their boss gave them a survey on the topic? I’m guessing nearly everyone. But why? We rush to be team leaders when the “opportunity” arises—regardless of how well we know we would lead a given project—because we believe that showing leadership (or at least the willingness to lead) is what will propel our careers forward. As one can imagine, this propensity and eagerness to be a leader in any situation can be extremely detrimental to a team. Aside from the inevitable animosity and jealousy fuming from the team members who also wanted to show-off their leadership abilities, chances are pretty high that the eager volunteer just isn’t the right person to lead in that situation.
It’s an unfortunate side-effect of how we’re indoctrinated in much of Western society. How many college brochures say something to the effect of “We help build the leaders of tomorrow”? We’re told from a very early age that leadership is what “makes a man” (whatever that means) and that if we fail to be great leaders at some point in our lives, we’re not all that important in the grand scheme of things.
That’s a load of bull.
Next time you’re in a team situation where a leader must emerge, think critically about the role before you push everyone aside to take it. Should you be the leader? Is the team better served by your skills if you are not burdened with that responsibility?
Sheep photo courtesy of mouton.rebelle.